Monday, September 27, 2010
Happy Belated Moon Greetings!
Saturday, September 18, 2010
once upon a time (a long tale)

The Story-Writing Club, plus 2
Read on for the full tale
In that earlier time, the young lady (let's call her Lia) also had a passion for writing. Lia studied the words of other writers within halls of higher learning and even went on to learn the craft of how to turn her musings into stories for others to enjoy. She chanced upon other like-minded people and together they formed a story-writing club which was filled with light and laughter and reams of paper that told tales of many kinds.
The years passed...some of the writers completed their stories... some were short tales, some long, some imaginary and some of a more instructive leaning. They were wondrous tales and the friends encouraged each other in their work and cheered each other in their successes. Lia's own tale reached near 500 pages and 34 chapters and she loved the time she spent on her craft.
Then Lia became a mother.
This too was wondrous and filled with joy and excitement and fun. However, as all good mothers know, being a mom means BUSY. It means laundry and cooking and play dates and doctor appointments and first days at school and driving to swimming and dancing and piano and gymnastics. It means being so tired at night that stirring the brain cells to do any more than help the body crawl slowly up to bed was not to be - for a while.
Lia would not change any of that for a moment. Never. Being a mom is one of the most important and most rewarding accomplishments in her life. But her storytelling had to take a back seat and unfortunately so did the joyous times with the story-writing club...there simply was not time to do everything.
Until now...10 years later, Lia's children are growing and striking out on adventures of their own and suddenly there is a little more time. Suddenly, those 500 pages are calling out to be completed...to finish the tale started many years ago.
So be it, the tale will continue.
The 500 pages is accurate and I figuratively dusted off my manuscript (figuratively because it is in electronic format of course) this month and am very excited to return to this other joy in my life.
Many events this year brought me to this point. Some were the musings of my sister's blog and being in contact with other writers. But also important was an email received from a dear, dear friend of the story-writing club...Rona Arato, Ronnie to her friends. I have known Ronnie since my earliest days of writing and she always encouraged me with enthusiastic words and gentle nudges.
During my first decade as a mom, Ronnie has continued to write and publish. She has many books under her belt and this past Spring another of her children's novels was published and she invited me to the book signing party. By fiddling with our crazy schedule I was able to go and bring my girls with me. How wonderful to also meet my other writing friends, Sydell and Lynn (also successful writers) and introduce all three to my daughters. (That's us above...Sydell, Ronnie, yours truly and Lynn.)
Ronnie was busy that day, of course, signing books and chatting and reading from her newest tale, Mrs. Kaputnik's Pool Hall and Matzo Ball Emporium. When I wasn't chatting with my friends, I went and bought both of Ronnie's recent children's novels.

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I began the first (Ice Cream Town) as soon as I returned home that day but before I could finish it Bryanna had confiscated the story and proceeded to read through the entire book in a few days. Then she took the Mrs. Kaputnik book and finished that one too. They ARE great stories and I was thrilled that Bryanna thought so too.
And so this post that began as the story of a once young writer and a return to her craft, circles back to the daughter who loves books.
Now that's a happy ending.
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
first day smiles and trials
Bryanna was less enthused. Heading off to Grade 6 in a new environment at the local middle school and already knowing that none of her closest friends were in her class took some of the shine off this first day. However, she was happy with her new shoulder bag and cool blouse, and she and I headed off to a new world (this mom with trepidation well hidden).
Little did we know how big the new world would be - NINE Grade 6 classes, formed from three junior public schools in the area. As we took our place in the designated area for Homeroom 6-H, Bryanna watched with a suddenly solemn gaze as she realized that there was not one girl from her junior school in the class. As the minutes ticked by, her smile completely disappeared and I was doing and saying every cheerful mom thing I could think of to lighten her mood. Her teacher was lovely and introduced herself to both of us - I knew she would help ease things if she could and I took a quiet moment to explain Bryanna's concerns.
As the classes filed into the school at the bell, I watched with my own sinking heart as my eldest walked away around a corner.
I worried all day.
A sudden power outage in our office building meant that I was able to leave work early and arrived at Cassidy's school as our daycare provider waited to do the daily pick-up. I asked where Bryanna was (who gets out earlier) and learned she had headed inside to see some of her much loved teachers. And so I learned second-hand that there were two girls Brya knew after all in her class (they had been lost that morning!) and that made her feel better. And her teacher IS nice. And she has a nice locker-mate.
Huge relief. We headed out to the Mandarin for dinner to celebrate first successes and that was a great end to the day.
All that said, Brya is not as enthusiastic about school as she has been the last seven years and her second day has not resulted in any exclamations of happiness. I am trusting, however, that her love of learning will make middle school more fun as she becomes familiar with this new world.
I need to get used to it too.
Sunday, September 5, 2010
for the love of camping
And so, back in the Spring we began exploring with our camping mates, Shauna and MacLean, where we might adventure this year. Being in tents, we weren't thrilled to venture into more northern locations where bears might be a factor. We checked out many places but were directed to Port Burwell Provincial Park on Lake Erie by a friend of Shauna's. Apparently a gem of a park with marvellous beaches, we decided to take a chance on the unknown and booked a site.
Wow.
We LOVE this place. And when I say "we" I'm not talking about just the girls. Shauna and I, and Shauna's good friend Mel who joined us, were over the moon. While most of the rest of this post will be photos to hopefully share some of the beauty of the place, I'll provide a little narrative too...
The Thompsons and Mel arrived early Thursday afternoon in a heatwave and were melting by the time our tent was up. Shauna and MacLean weren't due to arrive for some time so we headed to the beach under pure blue skies.
As we walked over the rise from the car park, My jaw dropped and Mel and I looked at each other and then the horizon in disbelief. We could have been in Florida.
Look at the beach! Huge, sandy, and the water...warm, warm, warm. The girls threw those boogie boards into the waves and were off...
After great fun, we headed back to meet our friends at the site...
...and found them with their tent up and pooped out from the heat too.
Our new camping home...
That night we dined on Jambalaya made by Mel...we will definitely need the recipe for that creation...Cass had 3 helpings!
The cool weather finally arrived overnight and we were happy to have a hot breakfast the next day. While Saturday was too cool for the beach, we enjoyed exploring the park and just relaxing.
By early evening, the clouds had cleared and we took a long walk in the sunshine all around the campground.
Last night was colder still, but the girls (and me too) think we like the cold better for sleeping...snuggled into our sleeping bags and covered by three thick afghan blankets, it was cozy in our new, big tent.
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Just because
While away, Bryanna and Cassidy enjoyed meeting and playing with Alice the guinea pig but they were also thrilled to come home to see their own buddy. They spent a long time playing with him our first evening home (causing a nice flare up of allergies, I might add).
Charlie certainly had a real workout...I was a little worried about his heart with so much activity. Take a look...
hee hee
Sunday, August 1, 2010
Our last day
Of course it took me most of the morning and early afternoon to get packed (and yes, friends, I needed to buy another bag!). But we finally were able to set off into the still lingering fog, heading up over the hills and past Muir Woods to Stinson beach. As we followed the winding road along the cliff edge (yikes) we could see the fog pulling back just enough from the coast for us to see blue sky.
And as we gathered up towels and blankets and cameras, we were all happy to step onto the sandy beach and feel it so warm under our feet. The Terrific Trio grabbed their buckets and we all relaxed...
As the fog thinned, the girls dropped the extra layers and played in the sand and surf...rescued baby jellyfish and explored the rocks with Uncle D and Auntie Kim. Kim did double duty by going for refreshments -- while I lay quite contentedly on the blanket and took care of the cameras (hee hee).
Finally, as the fog began to return, we sadly left the water and the beach to head home.
It has been a glorious two weeks, made even better for all the time with my sister. Now it's back to real life ... but how much fun this has all been! Will do a wrap-up later on this week with some favourite photos of mine, and some from Kim and Uncle D.
Night all - we're back on Monday night!
Miss you, Kim, D and Sweetpea!
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Three day smorgasbord of fun
Thursday was a quieter day with a movie outing in the afternoon (Despicable Me for the younger girls and Kim, Sorcerer's Apprentice for Brya and I). We followed the sun for an early evening stroll through the Sausalito marina (wow, those yachts are worth WAY more than my house!) and then another yummy dinner out.
Friday, after repeated begging from the Terrific Trio, we signed them up for another day at Steve and Kate's daycamp. They ate crepes and gourmet pizza, made ice cream, recorded their own music CD (California Gurls, of course), sewed stuffed creations, and had a fantabulous time (their words).
Kim and I shopped. !!!!!!! No pics of that, but let's just say that I may be buying another bag today and paying some extra baggage fees - we'll see how creative we get with my packing.
Some of the results of the shopping expedition...
Cassidy with her fedora - she had been asking for one for ages - not sure where that request came from but she sure looks cute.
We were SO excited to receive a call from our cousin Stan last week (family from our Mom's Irish side who settled in California in the 60s) saying that they were having an 80th birthday party for his dad, Andy, and could we come? Andy and his wife, Hessie, were the family who gave Kim a home when she first went to California for an internship and they have a special place in our hearts - it always made us feel good to know that family was nearby in Kim's early days so far from home.
The party was yesterday and so we set off on another road trip, this time to the hills outside Sacramento to our cousin Stan's home. He and his wife and children live on a beautiful 5 acres there. My girls were thrilled to meet more cousins for the first time (many more, as family came together from all over California - from as far away as L.A.) AND to find that there were 2 dogs and a HORSE there. Not to mention rides on an ATV and swimming all afternoon in the pool.
I was thrilled to see my family again - I love them all and it was sweet to hear the Irish lilt in many of the voices throughout the afternoon.
Today is our last day and we plan to spend it at the beach...sad our time in this favourite place is coming to an end.








